Confused!
Saturday, June 10, 2006
Lets face it, every teenager wants to discuss the opposite sex.At the time when hormonal activities are at the peak, most of us(by that time in the high school or in the college) develop what can be called a hybrid of love, affection, attraction and some unexplainable feelings.Most of us in the generation venerating Justin Timberlake call it "crush", while those learned ones refer to it as- infatuation.
The reasons for teenage love are no longer hidden under the the sheets of ambiguity but are open and scientifically almost inevitable.One can always go for counselling, but frankly speaking, no one gives a damn to science!It is always as straightforward and insane as it can be ,"I love her/him."How many of us do actually try to reason with our feelings rather than just relinquishing to the hormonal tsunamies inside us.
A cognizant person will tell you how adoloscents often suffer from the pangs of depression after their 'lover' has dumped them, or the person they fancied rejected them.This leads to a series of consequences which may really not be pleasing.Take, for instance, the teenaged boy from a famous school in Bombay who called up the airport authorities spreading the bomb hoax 'just because' he wanted his girlfriend to return from her flight.The boy, albeit a good student, was suspended on the disciplinary grounds and is dreading furthur judgement from school authorities.Insanity, they follows love and this surely holds true in this case.
But it must be made very clear that infatuation is not the agent of negativity.It sometimes pumps us up with the energy, making us feel invincible. But these ephemeral moments of euphoria form part and parcel of teenage love. It can sometimes make us cross the boundries of frenzy, just like of my female friends who went nuts over this drummer guy and kind of engraved his name on her left arm with a razor.
But in today's scenario, is it really the hormones that coax us to fall in love, or the or the advent of technology and packed schedules of parents that make us look for love, no matter how artificial it is ?Is it peer pressure or the fact that we all want to be cool( now please dont pretend you dont want to be), that actually fuels infatuation.
Is the opposite sex strong enough to digress us, or we just want to?
Can't we just wait till our crush fades off, rather than being quick in love?
Patience is the key.
The reasons for teenage love are no longer hidden under the the sheets of ambiguity but are open and scientifically almost inevitable.One can always go for counselling, but frankly speaking, no one gives a damn to science!It is always as straightforward and insane as it can be ,"I love her/him."How many of us do actually try to reason with our feelings rather than just relinquishing to the hormonal tsunamies inside us.
A cognizant person will tell you how adoloscents often suffer from the pangs of depression after their 'lover' has dumped them, or the person they fancied rejected them.This leads to a series of consequences which may really not be pleasing.Take, for instance, the teenaged boy from a famous school in Bombay who called up the airport authorities spreading the bomb hoax 'just because' he wanted his girlfriend to return from her flight.The boy, albeit a good student, was suspended on the disciplinary grounds and is dreading furthur judgement from school authorities.Insanity, they follows love and this surely holds true in this case.
But it must be made very clear that infatuation is not the agent of negativity.It sometimes pumps us up with the energy, making us feel invincible. But these ephemeral moments of euphoria form part and parcel of teenage love. It can sometimes make us cross the boundries of frenzy, just like of my female friends who went nuts over this drummer guy and kind of engraved his name on her left arm with a razor.
But in today's scenario, is it really the hormones that coax us to fall in love, or the or the advent of technology and packed schedules of parents that make us look for love, no matter how artificial it is ?Is it peer pressure or the fact that we all want to be cool( now please dont pretend you dont want to be), that actually fuels infatuation.
Is the opposite sex strong enough to digress us, or we just want to?
Can't we just wait till our crush fades off, rather than being quick in love?
Patience is the key.
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Comments for Confused!
u r absolutely right!!!!!! there guy and i have the best example from my ownself
many of the adolescent have the feeling that they must have a partner or they love someone ...... but this is in most of the cases some inbound infatuation and no matter how much u try to convince them they still feel that its true love.
thank god i read this post or else i was gonna go proposing someone...... :)
...lol.... just kidding
keep posting such good posts
many of the adolescent have the feeling that they must have a partner or they love someone ...... but this is in most of the cases some inbound infatuation and no matter how much u try to convince them they still feel that its true love.
thank god i read this post or else i was gonna go proposing someone...... :)
...lol.... just kidding
keep posting such good posts
- Posted at Sunday, June 11, 2006 5:54:00 AM | By
Pavani Adarsh Kumar
Hmm, says something more about YOU rather... ;) Need I comment more?
- Posted at Sunday, June 11, 2006 6:56:00 PM | By Eventhorizon
Oh ya - something more - just polish up your template (esp. the links section and definitely the Comment section - trust me, it's fun!). In case you don't know ask me or your friends; we can help you out anytime, young lad.
- Posted at Sunday, June 11, 2006 7:00:00 PM | By Eventhorizon
Looks like another teen got 'confused' with his so- called 'love-life' ......
.....And apparently, Got DITCHED also...
HahaHAHHAHAHAAAHhahahahahaha
Spider R.
.....And apparently, Got DITCHED also...
HahaHAHHAHAHAAAHhahahahahaha
Spider R.
- Posted at Monday, June 12, 2006 6:57:00 AM | By Eventhorizon
Hey mR.Confused...........you know seeing some of the comments above ........... it encourages me to write some critisizing comments......... Can I do it......... Ha .. will see next time......
- Posted at Monday, June 12, 2006 1:41:00 PM | By Avrosh
hey dude...here's a warm welcum 2 ya in pragmatic world of bloggin ;)
well..talkin abt LOVE..u hv jus spoken ma mind!!!
love is like driftin sand momentarily its in our clutch n in da next moment it ebbs away...
GUYZ do i need to remind ya'll dat v r teenagers...n its da time 2 make n not break our career..(it may sound a bit bookish but hey truth bites..rite apurv!!!)
wallah
well..talkin abt LOVE..u hv jus spoken ma mind!!!
love is like driftin sand momentarily its in our clutch n in da next moment it ebbs away...
GUYZ do i need to remind ya'll dat v r teenagers...n its da time 2 make n not break our career..(it may sound a bit bookish but hey truth bites..rite apurv!!!)
wallah
- Posted at Monday, June 12, 2006 8:36:00 PM | By gargi_gelid
gargi you're in trouble i have visual and digital proof and i m gonna sue you fer public humiliation and breach of conduct on the web how dare you exemplify me in that sense you think my careers gone caput huh well wait and see !!
you people think that now a days all i think of is out of the syllabus well some sure do i dunno why some people are obssessed with my "to-be virtual breakup" and fer the record ill be back on 18ty so birla college not gonna be all quite what da ya think just because i m not in kalyan you can backstab me huh
well i m not any whimmy whammy teenager who cant access net i can do it from any corner of the world so watch your step next time
last words fer gargi truth bites so
bite me !!^%#%$#^#%$#$&
you people think that now a days all i think of is out of the syllabus well some sure do i dunno why some people are obssessed with my "to-be virtual breakup" and fer the record ill be back on 18ty so birla college not gonna be all quite what da ya think just because i m not in kalyan you can backstab me huh
well i m not any whimmy whammy teenager who cant access net i can do it from any corner of the world so watch your step next time
last words fer gargi truth bites so
bite me !!^%#%$#^#%$#$&
- Posted at Monday, June 12, 2006 10:35:00 PM | By apurvrdx
sorry fer this aakash but i cant llet this go un noticed otherwise all the people will treat me as a punch bag
this is justt an disclaimer sort of thing that i can retalliate dont take my silence and laughter as my weakness
scared hahahahahahahahahahahaha
just joking yaar hahhehehehahahahhehehe
enjoy the new born-esque attention your blog is gettin aakash and i know you are gonna keep it up
a post on blog on the birth of a new e star is in the pipe l;ine heeeheee
this is justt an disclaimer sort of thing that i can retalliate dont take my silence and laughter as my weakness
scared hahahahahahahahahahahaha
just joking yaar hahhehehehahahahhehehe
enjoy the new born-esque attention your blog is gettin aakash and i know you are gonna keep it up
a post on blog on the birth of a new e star is in the pipe l;ine heeeheee
- Posted at Tuesday, June 13, 2006 1:48:00 AM | By apurvrdx
And the swords were whipped out and the war began -
KIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
KIIIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
All I can comment is-
You both stop bickering over difference in viewpoints.
Hey Aaaaaaaaaakkkkasssshhh, your blog has become a war-zone now :D
*cling* - *clang* - *cling* - *cling* ...
...And the war goes on...
Damn stop it you ...you... fightercocks!
KIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
KIIIIIIIIIIIILLLLLLLLLLLLLLL!!!!
All I can comment is-
You both stop bickering over difference in viewpoints.
Hey Aaaaaaaaaakkkkasssshhh, your blog has become a war-zone now :D
*cling* - *clang* - *cling* - *cling* ...
...And the war goes on...
Damn stop it you ...you... fightercocks!
- Posted at Tuesday, June 13, 2006 4:19:00 AM | By Eventhorizon
hey aakash
wud've left d comment earlier but hadn't a blogger account, now i do. so nice post. i hoped u wud choose a more relevant topic for ur first post. mine's bad newaz.
gud work
wud've left d comment earlier but hadn't a blogger account, now i do. so nice post. i hoped u wud choose a more relevant topic for ur first post. mine's bad newaz.
gud work
- Posted at Saturday, June 17, 2006 12:50:00 AM | By Prophet of Doom
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